Episode 20: When Abuse Turns Deadly
In this episode of Almost Oblivious, we explore one of the most dangerous realities of domestic abuse—when it escalates to homicide. Abuse doesn’t always start with physical violence, but when it does, the warning signs are often there. We break down the stages of escalation, key risk factors, and the terrifying reality that when a gun is involved, the chance of homicide increases by 500%.
We also discuss the psychology of victims—why they stay, why they defend their abuser, and how trauma bonding keeps them trapped in dangerous relationships. Using real-life cases, including the heartbreaking story of Gabby Petito, we examine how abuse can be overlooked until it’s too late.
If you or someone you love is in an abusive relationship, please know that help is available. This episode includes resources for safety planning, support, and escaping high-risk situations.
🚨 If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
📞 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
🌎 Find local shelters & legal aid: www.thehotline.org
Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline – www.thehotline.org
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) – www.ncadv.org
CDC Report on Homicide & Domestic Violence – www.cdc.gov
Statistics on Strangulation & Homicide Risk – www.allianceforhope.com
Firearm & Intimate Partner Homicide Data – www.everytownresearch.org
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