Episode 18: Why Don’t They Just Leave?
In this episode of Almost Oblivious, host Autumn Baker tackles one of the most misunderstood questions surrounding domestic abuse: "Why didn't they just leave?" Leaving an abusive relationship is far more complex than it seems, with psychological, financial, social, and legal barriers making escape incredibly difficult—and sometimes even dangerous. We’ll explore how trauma affects the brain, why survivors stay, and what ultimately helps them break free. Featuring survivor stories, expert insights, and practical ways to support those in abusive situations, this episode sheds light on the realities of domestic violence and the importance of understanding before passing judgment.
Resources:
https://psychcentral.com/blog/liberation/2017/10/long-term-narcissistic-abuse-can-cause-brain-damage#1
https://illinoisrecoverycenter.com/effects-of-emotional-abuse-on-the-brain/
https://blueboatcounseling.com/victims-of-abuse-6-reasons-why-they-dont-just-leave/
https://www.thehotline.org/support-others/why-people-stay-in-an-abusive-relationship/#:~:text=Survivors%20may%20be%20financially%20dependent,to%20leave%20an%20abusive%20situation.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9931748/
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